RSS

Don’t be a victim of history, Be a master of your destiny.

10 May

In life there is no single human being that doesn’t face some kind of negative feelings or incidents that set them back. This is only natural and we know that life cannot always be on one single level, be it good or bad. Otherwise how would we appreciate the good things? 

What we need to do in our lives though is not punishing ourselves because something didn’t go the way we wanted. We have to search for the good side of every situation, no matter how difficult that may be. We cannot live our live by the negative ABC’s, which are Anger, Betrayal and Criticism. If we do we only continue adding to the negativity that a certain incident has brought us.

We know that when we look back on things in our lives we often remember the hard times as the most defining moments we have faced. But we also see where the opportunities arose after the incident that created happiness, joy or love. It is in these moments of personal crises that we actually become the person we are destined to be and act in a way that really benefits us as individuals. Other times we are often so concerned with what another individual or group of people think that our desires and ambitions are left on the back burner. Why?

If there are people around you that are not helping you to reach a happier more fulfilling life then you have to do something to change that situation, no matter how difficult that may be. We cannot live a life full of guilt simply because we want to do the things that make us happy. You need to go to bed feeling grateful for what you have and wake up in the morning inspired and excited about what you are going to be doing.

The worst situation to be living in is when you are not doing what you want because of things that have happened to you in the past. These moments were in your life to teach you a lesson or create a new path of opportunity, not for you to be carrying them around with you for the rest of your life. Look back, learn from what happened and then move forward towards a destiny of wealth, happiness and love that you know you want and what is more important is yours for the taking. Don’t be a victim of your history, be a master of your destiny.

About these ads
 
3 Comments

Posted by on May 10, 2012 in About Me, Blog, Miscellaneous, motivation

 

Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

3 responses to “Don’t be a victim of history, Be a master of your destiny.

  1. demlaura33

    May 10, 2012 at 9:24 pm

    hi my friend.. that was so cool and uplifting.. thank you.. i am constantly made fun of ..in my family..because of my total optimism in life. you are just like me in that area..hahaha i didnt know there was another total optimist around other than me lol love Laura

     
    • afirmin

      May 11, 2012 at 5:41 am

      lol! Thanks Laura, yes always the optimist ;)

       
  2. demlaura33

    May 14, 2012 at 12:27 pm

    hello there.. you see..i have a very good friend,who also is a very fine man. I said things..i wish i never should have said..i hurt him..i am so very sorry. i just DONT do that..and i am heartbroken.. i hurt my best friend and mentor.. i am such an idiot.. i am sorry..love ME

     

Thank you for reading, Would love to hear your thoughts...

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

 
Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

Join 15,817 other followers

%d bloggers like this: