No Matter What You Are Going Through…You Are Not Alone.

We can often find ourselves isolated and alone through a many number of circumstances. Regardless what these circumstances are, because, there are as many as there are different people in this world, we can find ourselves in a dark place wondering where the light may come, if it will come at all.

We see on the news how human beings treat each other in our world today and it sickens us to our very core yet there are hidden tragedies of people facing turmoil alone, often without help or guidance on how to resolve their demons. The list is endless but from eating disorders, self harm, bullying, depression, substance abuse and unfortunately the list goes on and on. We call ourselves civilized but often society turns its back on people, blames them for their problems or simply walks past them consumed with their own daily troubles of paying bills and meeting deadlines.

I have been spending a lot of time over the last year exploring various issues and almost started a non-profit in the Middle East for helping parents and children understand or find information about what to do when a child is bullied, as I felt not enough was being done.

I know, it is not going to change the world, but I only needed to change one child’s world for all the effort to be worthwhile. Unfortunately I returned back to the UK before being able to see it through although it is still something I plan to do. However, what I found in the UK seemed to only highlight the amount of troubles facing people in our world.

One thing I have found in all my research is that there are many incredibly brave people, some children, creating blogs that are trying to share their experiences in the hope that they come to terms with what they are going through, but most importantly that someone out there may see a post, a blog or a word that truly does connect and they do not feel so isolated, so alone and even so abandoned. From deep heartfelt messages, quotes and even incredible illustrations show a glimpse of the pain in people’s lives, these people are what you might call ‘real comic book heroes in a digital world.’

So, whatever you are facing, don’t give up, don’t sleep thinking no one cares because there are many people in this world who care about you. More importantly don’t blame yourself for anything that has happened as we all carry baggage with us through life and it defines who you are, the good, the bad and the ugly. Those that love you will accept that, it doesn’t matter about the ones that don’t. Just search for whatever you are going through online, I guarantee you will find help and importantly not be alone through the journey you are on.

 

Full Potential Can Only Be Reached With Full Commitment

The truth is we are all guilty of not living up to our full potential. There is no excuse, no blame to be placed or tear to be shed. We may blame society for crashing our dreams, holding us back, pulling the economical rug from beneath us but the cold hard fact is that the only person that can change our situation is the individual themselves, You and me.

Life has a way of distracting us from our goals, putting little obstacles in our path and sometimes just being down right mean with circumstance or chance. But hey, that is life and we have a simple choice, either accept the fact that things will not always go your way or face the dark road of self-doubt and self-pity.

These roads are the ones most trodden unfortunately and everything in today’s media, society and culture is pushing you to go the same way as the herd. But unless you are like me and just so stubborn that you don’t know when you are beaten, or just know that a better life is waiting for you if you try that little bit harder, then the road you will walk will be one of self discovery and enlightenment. That doesn’t mean that it will be straight and smooth, but it does mean there is a better you waiting at the end. Journey on!